Your Co-Creators

A Co-creator is someone who makes or invents something new together with one or more other people! At NK Intimacy Alchemy, we believe in being collaborative, and co-creating with those who boldly join us and venture where they have not gone before. Co-creation is also more deeply embedded in the heart of establishing community with neurokin. We don’t want to just lead and teach, we want to learn and develop from and in parallel with you. Co-creation is magical, and can be a powerful way of achieving your goals with a strengthened vision and aligned purpose. We would be honoured to make some magic with you.

Paulo Primerano (He/Him)

Paulo is an AudHD Reiki practitioner (Level 2) and holds his Certificate IV in Massage. He is also one of our facilitators for our beautiful retreats.

He has a special interest in:
- Meditation
- Reiki
- Marvel and DC comics and movies
- Boxing
- Joyspot laughing

He regularly practices spirituality through his deepened connection to self. He utilises his calming energy to ground others during times of overwhelm, bringing balance to chaos. Paulo has a deepened sense of self-awareness, and has developed his own meditative practices for harnessing both spiritual and self-intimacy. He has created incredible programs for ND individuals looking to broaden their sense of self-expansion through integration of wisdom from leaders of inspiration such as Bruce Lee. He utilises eastern philosophy and pairs this with his spirituality work, to exponentially increase and empower others to believe in themselves and show up authentically.

Annelil Desille (She/They)

Annelil is an AudHD’er intimacy and relationship coach, using their personal experiences, along with clinical expertise in the field to work with neurodivergent individuals.

Her special interests include:
- Neurodivergence
- Mind/Body connection
- Sexual health, dating, intimacy
- Attachment
- Spirituality

She holds her Certificate III and IV in Fitness, Master of Clinical Psychology, Postgraduate Diploma of Psychology, Bachelor of Psychological Science and Reiki (level 2) certification. She utilises her array of knowledge and passion for all things sex, relationships and intimacy to support neurokin with their ability to deepen and strengthen connections together. Lil has developed and created incredible resources, as well as events and courses that are tailored specifically to the AuDHD community. These events and resources have largely been complimented by our neurokin for their level of inclusivity, adaptability and resourcefulness.

Who Inspires Our Work?

“As a teenager, I remember feeling incredibly curious about humans and the way we connect with ourselves and each other. From as young as I can remember, observing others and watching body language to understand the subtle nuances of emotional expression.

I grew up in an environment that shamed me for wanting to understand others on a deeper level and for exploring connection through sensuality and sexuality. I spent most of my teen years online, scrolling through Tumblr and Youtube in search of information that would not otherwise have been easily sought out.

In my searching, I found the incredible Dr. Lindsay Doe from the Youtube Channel ‘Sexplanations’ and Shan Boodram from ‘ShanBoody’ who offered me an outstanding amount of affirming, knowledgeable and inclusive sex education. THIS was the beginning of my dream to work in the field of sex, intimacy and relationships.

From there, I became the ‘go-to’ person that everybody at school would come to for advice and information. This carried on and continued throughout my entire life and I simply could not be more grateful to be working in this field.

Since this time, I have engaged with:

  • Researching and publishing research within the sex & intimacy field

  • Studying and engaging in professional development within the sex, relationship and intimacy field

  • Clinical experience with clients in the ND and sex, relationships and intimacy field

  • Creating and developing online courses, webinars and products

  • Hosting couple and individual retreats surrounding self-intimacy and partnership intimacy

My purpose in life is to provide others with support and understanding surrounding the person they are, and how they choose to interact in this world. I am fortunate enough to have the experiences I do, where I have connected with many wonderful humans who have supported me in supporting them”

- Annelil Desille (Nk. Intimacy Alchemy)