Links & Recommendations
This is our resource landing page for all of our singles, couples, or polycules that are looking to explore more about the way they operate. Whether you are a solo human, or in ND/ND partnership, or NT/ND partnership, at NK Intimacy Alchemy our aim is to offer both support and insight into the patterns you have established and highlight the value of all intimacy variations. Further, the creators below aim to support you with identifying new resources that may facilitate deeper learning and a deepened sense of intimacy towards yourself, lovers and others. It is important to also recognise that due to the lack of literature of neuroaffirming sex/intimacy work for our community, neuroaffirming resources are often limited to Instagram or other social media websites. Useful resources have been included that apply across the board for all relationship styles, however we recognise the importance of neuroinclusive, intersectional and trauma-informed education.
Our Resources
Social Media
Instagram - www.instagram.com/neurokinnection
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@neurokinnection_?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/share/p/15tBdSBaK2/
Podcasts we have been on (just to name a few)
Does My Psychologist Like Me?: Am I Autistic? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jLsld3rqCXw1igBuWpZ6L?si=43207f18b7024d90
The Deep Dive Au: Neurodivergence & Intimacy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KarsSrPx6iE
Alphabet Soup, Exploring Complex Neurodiversity! Sex, Intimacy & ND - https://pod.link/9nBEXa/episode/30fb73c4178a7c4d1c6c896e866bbec8
ADHD Her Way, ND Sex, Relationships & Boundaries - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7l4s2PHgxky4SirEu24Xi4?si=06ee8b9aa11c4ef1
Spark TV Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndrm3FOSfq0
My Naked Mindset, Embracing Neurodiverse Love - https://open.spotify.com/episode/51QIqR1grDT3V2nz6lSL9m?si=abc1251d2ac04229
Focus Bear - Episode 84: Neurodivergence, love & relationships
Our creations (self-made and proud!)
I Chose to Live Despite - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/i-chose-to-live-despite
ND Affirmation Inner Child Deck - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/neurodivergent-inner-child-affirmation-card-deck
ND Inner Child Audio Reassurances - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/inner-child-audio-reassurances-bundle-10-feminine-voice
Additional
SHIPS Training - https://sexual-health-intimacy-psychological-training.teachable.com/p/neurodivergence-intimacy
Books
Hold Me Tight, Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love – Dr. Sue Johnson
Attached – Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Come As You Are – Emily Nagoski
Mating in Captivity – Esther Perel
The Ethical Slut – Dossie Easton
Fight Right – Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman & Dr. John Gottman
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy – Lola Phoenix
Mono in a Poly World: What to Do When Your Partner Is Polyamorous and You Aren’t – Tazmyn Ozga
The Polyamory Breakup Book – Kathy Labriola
Relationship Anarchy – Juan-Carlos Perez-Cortez
Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships
Nonviolent Communication: A language of life – Marshall B. Rosenberg
Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for The 21st Century - Barbara Carralles
Bang! Masturbation for People of All Genders and Abilities - Vic Liu
The Big Book of Submission - Rachel Busser
The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability - Kaufman M.D., Silverberg
Links
https://www.rdsforneurodiversity.com/neurodiversity-affirming-model
www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources
https://neurodiversitypodcast.com/home/2023/8/31/episode-188-mixed-neurotype-relationships
https://neuroclastic.com/navigating-nd-nt-partnerships/
Instagrams
Neurokinnection - https://www.instagram.com/neurokinnection/
Meg Callendar - https://www.instagram.com/meg_callandersexologist/?hl=en
Casey Tanner - https://www.instagram.com/queersextherapy/?hl=en
Talk About X - https://www.instagram.com/talkaboutxau/
Phoebe - https://www.instagram.com/therelationshipspace/
My Friend in Sex Ed - https://www.instagram.com/myfriendinsexed/
Shan Boodram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/
Afrosexology - https://www.instagram.com/afrosexology_/
Sexual Wellness Products
The Sensory Shop - https://www.thesensoryshop.com.au
LBDO - https://www.lbdo.com
Passionfruit Shop - https://www.passionfruitshop.com.au
Love & Lust Co - https://loveandlustco.com.au
Apps (For all relationship styles)
Cupla - https://cupla.app
Coral - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/coral-couples-game-questions/id1448861466
Gottman Couple App - https://www.gottman.com/couples/apps/
Paired - https://www.paired.com/premium
Tinder - https://tinder.com/en-AU
Bumble - https://bumble.com
Feeld - https://feeld.co
Hinge - https://hinge.co
Love Nudge - https://5lovelanguages.com/resources/app
Official - https://www.getofficial.co