Links & Recommendations

This is our resource landing page for all of our singles, couples, or polycules that are looking to explore more about the way they operate. Whether you are a solo human, or in ND/ND partnership, or NT/ND partnership, at NK Intimacy Alchemy our aim is to offer both support and insight into the patterns you have established and highlight the value of all intimacy variations. Further, the creators below aim to support you with identifying new resources that may facilitate deeper learning and a deepened sense of intimacy towards yourself, lovers and others. It is important to also recognise that due to the lack of literature of neuroaffirming sex/intimacy work for our community, neuroaffirming resources are often limited to Instagram or other social media websites. Useful resources have been included that apply across the board for all relationship styles, however we recognise the importance of neuroinclusive, intersectional and trauma-informed education.

Our Resources

Social Media

Instagram - www.instagram.com/neurokinnection

Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@neurokinnection_?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/share/p/15tBdSBaK2/

Podcasts we have been on (just to name a few)

Does My Psychologist Like Me?: Am I Autistic? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jLsld3rqCXw1igBuWpZ6L?si=43207f18b7024d90

The Deep Dive Au: Neurodivergence & Intimacy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KarsSrPx6iE

Alphabet Soup, Exploring Complex Neurodiversity! Sex, Intimacy & ND - https://pod.link/9nBEXa/episode/30fb73c4178a7c4d1c6c896e866bbec8

ADHD Her Way, ND Sex, Relationships & Boundaries - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7l4s2PHgxky4SirEu24Xi4?si=06ee8b9aa11c4ef1

Spark TV Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndrm3FOSfq0

My Naked Mindset, Embracing Neurodiverse Love - https://open.spotify.com/episode/51QIqR1grDT3V2nz6lSL9m?si=abc1251d2ac04229

Focus Bear - Episode 84: Neurodivergence, love & relationships

Our creations (self-made and proud!)

I Chose to Live Despite - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/i-chose-to-live-despite

ND Affirmation Inner Child Deck - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/neurodivergent-inner-child-affirmation-card-deck

ND Inner Child Audio Reassurances - https://www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources/p/inner-child-audio-reassurances-bundle-10-feminine-voice

Additional

SHIPS Training - https://sexual-health-intimacy-psychological-training.teachable.com/p/neurodivergence-intimacy

Books

Hold Me Tight, Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love – Dr. Sue Johnson

Attached – Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

Come As You Are – Emily Nagoski

Mating in Captivity – Esther Perel

The Ethical Slut – Dossie Easton

Polysecure – Jessica Fern

Polywise – Jessica Fern

Fight Right – Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman & Dr. John Gottman

The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy – Lola Phoenix

Mono in a Poly World: What to Do When Your Partner Is Polyamorous and You Aren’t – Tazmyn Ozga

The Polyamory Breakup Book – Kathy Labriola

Relationship Anarchy – Juan-Carlos Perez-Cortez

Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships

Wired For Love – Stan Tatkin

Nonviolent Communication: A language of life – Marshall B. Rosenberg

Love & Autism – Kay Kerr

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for The 21st Century - Barbara Carralles

Bang! Masturbation for People of All Genders and Abilities - Vic Liu 

The Big Book of Submission - Rachel Busser

My Pleasure - Laura Delarato

The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability - Kaufman M.D., Silverberg

Links

https://www.rdsforneurodiversity.com/neurodiversity-affirming-model

https://medium.com/@livedexperienceeducator/neurodiversity-affirming-practice-core-principles-f2c6d70661af

www.neurokinnection.com.au/info-resources

https://reframingautism.org.au/divergent-love-navigating-love-and-relationships-as-an-autistic-adult/

https://www.livingonthespectrum.com/health-and-wellbeing/neurotypical-and-neurodivergent-relationships/

https://neurodiversitypodcast.com/home/2023/8/31/episode-188-mixed-neurotype-relationships

https://neuroclastic.com/navigating-nd-nt-partnerships/

Instagrams

Neurokinnection - https://www.instagram.com/neurokinnection/

Meg Callendar - https://www.instagram.com/meg_callandersexologist/?hl=en

Casey Tanner - https://www.instagram.com/queersextherapy/?hl=en

Talk About X - https://www.instagram.com/talkaboutxau/

Phoebe - https://www.instagram.com/therelationshipspace/

My Friend in Sex Ed - https://www.instagram.com/myfriendinsexed/

Shan Boodram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/

Afrosexology - https://www.instagram.com/afrosexology_/

Sexual Wellness Products

The Sensory Shop - https://www.thesensoryshop.com.au

LBDO - https://www.lbdo.com

Passionfruit Shop - https://www.passionfruitshop.com.au

Love & Lust Co - https://loveandlustco.com.au

Apps (For all relationship styles)

Cupla - https://cupla.app

Coral - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/coral-couples-game-questions/id1448861466

Gottman Couple App - https://www.gottman.com/couples/apps/

Paired - https://www.paired.com/premium

Tinder - https://tinder.com/en-AU

Bumble - https://bumble.com

Feeld - https://feeld.co

Hinge - https://hinge.co

Love Nudge - https://5lovelanguages.com/resources/app

Official - https://www.getofficial.co