“The Neurokinnection retreat was the perfect blend between skills development and relaxation with neurokin. We found the overall experience of meeting and getting to know other couples equally as beneficial as the formal content. Everyone was beautifully understanding, and we felt comfortable discussing our relationship, both the highs and the lows, in a group setting. Lil and Paulo organised the retreat diligently, and catered extensively to neuro-differences, and also physical capacity differences among their cohort. Everything was well thought through, from the venue, to the menu, and the activities ”

“Lil and Paulo were fantastic hosts! I feel so much more connected to my wife, and I feel I understand myself a whole lot more as well. I found the techniques and ideas we discussed on the retreat really helpful for improving our intimacy, but also managing our conflict a lot better. The retreat was also very neurodivergent-affirming, and over the whole retreat I felt very comfortable being myself, and discussing the challenges my ADHD brings to my relationship with my wife”

“As a participant of this amazing retreat, I can honestly say it was incredible. Having never met anyone there previously, both my partner and I were a little anxious going in to it. Turns out there was no need, everyone there was accepting, warm and friendly. Lil and Paulo, you were both amazing hosts/facilitators. You held space in the most incredible container of love, acceptance and genuine care. The activities and tools??? Oh my goodness, so much useful content and the ability to practice. The book? Incredible ! We honestly felt so wonderfully supported throughout the whole journey. I am also still processing everything that was the Neurokinnection retreat. What I can say right here and right now is we have zero regrets and our cups are full. What an amazing time to be alive with our neuro divergent kin. I can't begin to think about the amount of effort that went into everything you did as you made it seem effortless. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🙏🙏😊♥️”

"Lil and Paulo are filling a much-needed gap in ND folks being able to come together in a place where they can be more of themselves and work on their intimate relationships. So much excitement in participants as they shared aha moments about themselves and their partners. The venue was beautiful and Lil and Paulo's care, enthusiasm and neuroaffirmation showed in everything they did”

“On paper, something like this shouldn't work. But from day zero Lil and Paulo created a space where masks can be put down and we could be our most authentic self. The hardest part of it all was having to leave which is what I feel is a testament to how safe and validating the experience was/is”

“Noticing my level of social comfort and resonance with other ND'rs, particularly in the affirming space that was created. It's ok to be wierd and wired different to nt, and there is nothing wrong with me, and I'm a zebra not a horse with wonky stripes. That nd couples have extra challenges in relationship due to the contextual factors of communication and a life time of being misunderstood”

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