Join the Nk. Intimacy Alchemy Online Portal

Neurodivergent relationships are complex and nuanced

‍The demands and expectations we place upon each other relationally looks similar to that of a cishetero-neuronormative relationship, but…

It is so much more different!‍

No wonder that so many neurodivergent relationships fail, particularly when we have been taught our whole lives that neuronormative is the only way.‍

The challenges we face when attempting to partner with another neurodivergent are important and varied.

  • We seek to feel attraction and intense chemistry with our lovers, while also craving safety and security from them in the same capacity

  • We crave routine and a sense of predictability, and we simultaneously seek to experience novelty and excitement!

  • We want to feel seen, heard and understood through deep connection, and we also want to experience autonomy and personal boundlessness.

  • We have to navigate systems of oppression, sensory incompatibilities and differences in our social capacity, while still seeking to find a way to make it work.

Exploring your intimate landscape requires courage

The more we want from our intimate partners, the more we need to be willing to put in the effort. After all, the most incredible and resilient of relationships do not just magically maintain themselves (that we know of, anyway!).

W‍e are humans, trying our best but sometimes we do need to practice a bit more, before we can get it right.

The WHAT, the HOW and the WHY of what we do within our relationships are the crucial questions that allow us to go deeper with intimacy. ‍‍

The NK Intimacy Alchemy Online Portal Relationship Membership is designed exactly for this.

We are the FIRST Neurodivergent & Queer-led Relationship Online Portal that caters to multiple domains of intimacy

The Membership covers the five key aspects of 

deeply connected and authentic neurodivergent relationships:‍

  • Self-intimacy: Nervous system regulation & Healthy Boundaries

  • Emotional Intimacy: Authentic Relating Communication skills, Co-regulation, Rupture and repair

  • Partner Intimacy: Experiencing ‘as close to’ secure attachment, play, appreciation, dating, physical touch

  • Sensual and Sexual Intimacy: Libido, sex, sensory systems, sensual exercises

  • Neurotype Understanding: Understanding of your neurotypes (brain differences) within your relationship as a source of knowledge for each partner and how to support them.

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Each of these aspects are made up of a number of different skills that altogether create the deep skillset of a strong and fulfilling neurodivergent relationships.

Join the NK. Intimacy Alchemy online portal

We welcome you to our online portal where you can access all that we have to offer, to wholly support you and hold you on this journey you embark on. We welcome you to the portal of what can only be described as an initiation into the world of magic and intimacy. We have developed this content, specifically for you, with the intention to reclaim what has always existed within you. This portal is your reclamation of deep intimacy and honouring the divine connection that you hold with yourself and others.

With your guides, Annelil and Paulo, you will embark upon this journey and be safely held within our containers. You will be held, but you will also be challenged to courageously step into your power, and to expand your emotional landscape beyond what you already know. We dive into this space highlighting alternatives and modifications that account for and support the diversity of our neurokin, so that no partner is left unsupported or unseen.

 Make yourself at home within our portal, explore and dabble. Pick and choose how you wish to enter and where. The beauty of our portal is that you can ultimately choose how you design your partnership, and what insights you wish to take from it. All we ask is that you remain open-minded and, if possible, to surrender to what unfolds.

We are excited to see what magic unfolds from here. THIS is where YOU begin.

  • Access to our online Slack hub to:

    • Connect with other neurokin

    • Share the wins within your relationship

    • Celebrate outfit or good mood vibes

    • Rant on the harder days without judgement

    • Q + A forum, which will be answered monthly on our lives.

  • On a fortnightly basis, you will have access to:

    • Emails sent directly to you about love, sex, intimacy and relationship building

    • Two new conversational prompts

  • Please note: there is no nudity or sex that is depicted in this content. However, we do recommend if you are uncomfortable with sensuality and sensual expression, to not explore these spiral components! On a monthly basis, you will have access to:

    • One review of: books, toys, products that we test and try, to give you feedback on! Talk about a try before you buy!

    • Creative date night idea or bonding exercise to facilitate connection, with how-to steps (in addition to our already there date lists)

    • Q + A live zoom call to troubleshoot questions within our neurokommunity! Lil answers these in a clinical and respectful fashion, respecting privacy.

    • Self-love practice bonus short videos or resources

    • Hard to Swallow! <3 minute videos on hard truths about sex, intimacy and relationships uploaded monthly

    • On a bi-monthly (as in, once every two months) basis, a new live session will be presented to our community around our main domain topics or XX-rated section. These will be ticketed events for the public to access, but free for you. You will have unlimited access.

    • Monthly resources uploaded into our different sections too

It’s cheaper than couples therapy!

Pick n Choose Options

We will two options for our fellow lovers, with a monthly subscription for our noncommittal and curious partners and an annual portal subscription for our dedicated adventurers.

Each fortnight and month there will be different and new content items, if you are a portal subscription user.

Memberships for couples:
$155.00 per month
Memberships for ENM partnerships:
$155 for 2 users + 40.00 per additional partner

It’s cheaper than couples therapy!

As a member, you will gain access to a wealth of resources and exclusive content tailored to your relationships and intimate relating. Take your relationship to the next level exploring:

  • Sex and Desire

  • Play

  • Communication

  • Emotional connection

  • Deepened intimacy

  • Parenting

  • Neurotype supports and accommodations

Surround yourself with neurokin who are deepening their understanding of intimacy and expanding their connection. Submerge yourself into the world of magic that comes with intimacy, and find yourselves enamoured with each other.

We are also poly-friendly, which means that there is a section dedicated to individuals in the poly and ENM space that are looking to understand their neurodivergence and how this can be explored through different relationship dynamics.

FAQs

  • That's only something you and your partner(s) will be able to decide. We've created our online portal membership in a way that allows you to work at your own pace through our course material, with the satisfying knowledge that new material is coming!

    You can show up to Q+A's and really immerse yourself in the experience if you wish too. 

    The real knowledge is the work you apply in your day to day life though :)

  • Yes! We aim to share a respectful, polite and safe neurokommunity, where we encourage connection.

    You will meet people on live calls and in the discussion spaces we have. You will also be encouraged to reach out and practice with others if you wish to also, through our slack chat.

    If you stay a while, you are certain to make friends!

    We just request that you bare in mind, you will be in a collective of neurodivergent with different relationship preferences. Please maintain respect.

  • Nope! You will only have access for as long as you are subscribed. That is part of the platform and the "subscriber only" component is to emphasise exactly that. You are paying for a service that continues to create and develop resources for you.

  • All of our live sessions will be in AEST, with prepared notice of times.

    As we grow, more timezone considered classes will become available.

  • We do not discriminate here, so absolutely! We have a dedicated section specifically for ENM/Poly partnerships too, so that you can explore more about non-traditional relationships in more depth.

  • We do have some concession rates, yes. We have a capped number for the couples we can provide this to though, so first in, best dressed.